Compassionate Pathways
The Story Behind the Name
In my experience of working with survivors of trauma, victims of neglect, and people who have struggled with other mental health issues, I have found it is difficult for people to find self-compassion.
I believe the DBT tenet of “radical acceptance” is transformative. But I have seen that years of self-doubt, self-loathing, and listening to that Inner Critic can be a barrier to getting there. I’ve watched as people find a sense of compassion for themselves and begin to understand that some of the things they see as deficits or defects are actually coping skills or survival strategies, their pathway to healing becomes more and more accessible.
This is why I’ve named my practice Compassionate Pathways. As we become radical in finding compassion for ourselves, the pathway to healing is near.
Counseling Approaches
EMDR
Inner Child Work
DBT
Trauma/PTSD
Substance Use
Mindfulness
“We weren’t born with shame; it was instilled in us. We had no experience to measure or reject that shame when we were children, so we had to accept it.
But who keeps that shame alive in us today? It’s our Inner Critic that reflects the negative voices from our past.
But we now have the choice to change that voice.”
— Adult Children of Alcoholics/Dysfunctional Families Fellowship